verb

bitten

ask · request

Jemanden höflich darum fragen, etwas zu tun oder zu geben.

Definition & meaning

bitten is a German verb meaning to ask, to request, or to appeal to someone.

It is generally used when someone politely wants something or wants another person to do something:

  • Ich bitte dich um Hilfe. — I ask you for help.
  • Sie bat ihn, leiser zu sprechen. — She asked him to speak more quietly.

It can also mean to invite someone, especially in formal or fixed expressions:

  • Bitte nehmen Sie Platz. — Please take a seat.
  • Er bat seine Gäste zu Tisch. — He invited his guests to the table.

Grammar & Word origin

bitten is an irregular, strong verb:

  • Infinitive: bitten
  • Present tense: ich bitte, du bittest, er/sie bittet
  • Simple past: ich bat
  • Past participle: gebeten
  • Perfect tense: hat gebeten

Common grammatical patterns include:

  • jemanden bitten — to ask someone
  • jemanden um etwas bitten — to ask someone for something
  • jemanden bitten, etwas zu tun — to ask someone to do something

The verb is related to die Bitte , meaning “request” or “plea.” Both come from an old Germanic root connected with asking or praying.

Synonyms & antonyms

Synonyms

  • fragen — to ask; more general and often used for requesting information, whereas bitten emphasizes a request or favor.
  • ersuchen — to request; formal and bureaucratic.
  • auffordern — to ask or call upon someone to do something; stronger and less polite than bitten.
  • flehen — to beg or plead; much more emotional and desperate.
  • anbetteln — to beg someone persistently, often for money; considerably stronger and more negative.

Antonyms

There is no single exact antonym. Depending on the context, possible opposites include:

  • befehlen — to command; it requires obedience instead of making a request.
  • verbieten — to forbid; it tells someone not to do something.
  • ablehnen — to reject or refuse a request.

Common phrases & collocations

  • um Hilfe bitten — to ask for help
  • um Verzeihung bitten — to apologize or ask for forgiveness
  • um einen Gefallen bitten — to ask for a favor
  • jemanden höflich bitten — to ask someone politely
  • Ich bitte dich! — “Come on!” or “I beg you!”, expressing annoyance, disbelief, or an emphatic request
  • Bitte! — “Please,” “Here you are,” or “You’re welcome,” depending on the context

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Examples

Ich bitte dich um Hilfe.verb

I am asking you for help.

Kannst du mich bitte anrufen?verb

Can you please call me?

Wir bitten um Informationen.verb

We request information.

Er will dich um Rat bitten.verb

He wants to ask you for advice.

Darf ich um deine Meinung bitten?verb

May I ask for your opinion?

Könntest du ihn um Hilfe bitten?verb

Could you ask him for help?

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