hadern

The German verb "hadern" means "to quarrel", "to struggle", or "to be at odds" (often with oneself or with a situation).

• The word is not a compound and does not derive from other simple words.
• It expresses internal or external conflict, dissatisfaction, or disagreement.

Similar words:

• streiten — to argue or quarrel (general dispute, often between people)
• kämpfen — to struggle or fight (can be literal or figurative)
• sich abfinden — to come to terms (shows resolution rather than struggle)

Difference:

While "streiten" implies active arguing, "hadern" often involves a more internal, hesitant struggle or dissatisfaction, sometimes without direct confrontation. It expresses a deeper, often unresolved emotional or mental conflict.