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The German word "Ober" is a noun that informally refers to a "waiter" in a restaurant or café setting. It is short for "Oberkellner".

Words with similar meanings include:

1. "Kellner" (waiter) – more general term that includes waiters regardless of their position.
2. "Bedienung" (service) – can refer to the person serving you, commonly used to address waitstaff, but is more impersonal.

Difference:

• "Ober": Often implies a head waiter or senior position, though used informally nowadays.
• "Kellner": General term for waiter.
• "Bedienung": More about the function than the person, less formal and somewhat impersonal.